before embarking on any new endeavor, we typically conduct some form of research in order to make the most informed decisions
in building relationships with people, this process is especially important
while we may be able to perceive some of a person's qualities immediately upon initial interaction, there are some traits and behaviors that will only be exposed under particular circumstances
if we don't have the opportunity to experience those situations, we may not be privy to certain elements of a person's character
we can spare ourselves a lot of frustration and upset by taking the time to thoroughly examine the nature of people with whom we feel inclined to forge bonds before we allow those people access into our sphere
once we have emotionally invested ourselves in another person, a lot of pain can come with realizing that we may not have known the person as well as we thought
as with making any investment, it's wise to fully understand exactly what you're dealing with, including the potential risks
lesson: know what you're getting into.
I appreciate you hindsight
07 March 2010
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