Guilt Trippin

it doesn't do anyone any good to do something that you really don't want to

if you do a favor for someone and your heart really isn't in it, then that person would have probably been better off with your "help"

they'll just end up feeling bad for inconveniencing you

and if you want someone to do something and they decline, there's no sense in trying to make them feel bad

personally, I'd prefer no job over a half-hearted empty appeasement

lesson: just say no.

I appreciate you Marianna